The woman who was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory has admitted that she was ‘self-centered’ in the now viral clip – but still insisted that a man should treat her like ‘royalty.’
But, porn following the duo’s bitter debate in the video which has so far amassed over 7.8 million views, memek they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date.
Alicia was previously slammed after refusing to go on a first date to The Cheesecake Factory and crot has now admitted that she was ‘self-centered’
Alicia and Jay, who first met at a bar in Midtown Atlanta, bokeh made headlines last week when she refused to get out of the car and branded the chain restaurant as ’embarrassing’
Following the duo’s bitter debate in the video, they sat down with host of the Truth Factory Kevin Wesley to describe the aftermath of the fiery first date
When the duo caught up with Wesley, Alicia told the host that she refused to get out of the car because ‘a queen doesn’t do that,’ adding that she cannot be seen going into The Cheesecake Factory.
She also opened up about her decision to record their conversation, bokep despite Jay’s hesitations.
Alicia stated: ‘I felt like [he] didn’t see my value. In that moment, bokeh I felt like I needed the support of my viewers in that moment.
She also chalked up her behavior bokep to the crowd she surrounds herself with.
Alicia said that if any of her pals discovered she went to The Cheesecake Factory, crot she would ‘never live it down.’
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to ‘court’ her.
Alicia noted that she could have behaved better after Jay took her to The Cheesecake Factory, porn but as a ‘queen,’ she should not be expected to go into a chain dinner spot
She explained that her attitude came from her upbringing because she had been raised to expect a man to ‘court’ her
Alicia added: ‘To be fair, porn I was always raised that the man is supposed to cater to you. You’re courting me, so court me. That means wherever I want to go, porn you take me. Whatever I want, bokep you buy me. That’s courting. I’m looking for a provider.’
‘But after the conversation, crot I could see how there was a lot of “I” in that exchange. I was definitely very self-centered. I can appreciate that if I do want someone to provide for me, I have at least got to be a little bit nice.
‘I’m a beautiful woman, so I expect to be treated like royalty,’ she continued.
Alicia explained that her race was a factor in the conversation because she was ‘tired of having to settle.’
She noted that as a black woman, memek she no longer wants to stay in relationships where her needs aren’t being met, adding that she wants a ‘soft life.’
Jay spoke about how the clip has impacted his dating life, adding that he has found it difficult to find someone who is genuinely interested in him because Alicia took their date to the next level by recording it.
However, she did admit that she may have focused on herself too much, porn instead of taking into account Jay’s feelings
He explained: ‘Women kind of have this image of me based on the video, bokeh which hasn’t helped. It’s like they might think everything about me is reflected in that video, and I don’t think it is.
‘Her recording me did feel like that’s where she was trying to take advantage. It felt at the time that [she was] trying to get a free meal from a fancy restaurant and then get content from me too to post on YouTube or porn Facebook.’
Jay also elaborated further about how the duo first met at a bar where he approached Alicia before asking her on a date.
And memek Jay insisted that it wasn’t his intention to take her to the chain restaurant but their plans were disrupted when she made him wait an hour outside of her house when he arrive to pick her up.
He added that the clip painted him in a bad light.
Alicia was slammed online after refusing to get out the car for memek a first date at The Cheesecake Factory
She complained to Jay that the chain restaurant was ’embarrassing’
In the controversial clip which initially sparked the outrage online, memek Alicia could be seen sitting in the passenger seat of a car.
While donning a plunging neon green dress, crot she looked directly at the camera from behind a pair of statements shades.
Jay said he would walk around to open her door porn but, as soon as he exited the car, she expressed her dismay.
Alicia said: bokeh ‘He’s got me at The Cheesecake Factory.’
She then locked the door, shook her head and moved her finger disapprovingly as her date appeared outside her door.
‘Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?’
Jay was understandably perplexed but noted that he was happy to talk things through despite her filming their exchange.
To which, she responded with an air of condescension: bokeh ‘You’re supposed to. When you take out a beautiful woman and memek you’re courting her – because I get courted – you’re supposed to take care of her, you’re supposed to cover her, porn you’re supposed to protect her, memek cherish her, crot treat her well, bokeh right?’
He agreed, porn adding: memek ‘I went into the date with expectations for bokep myself – to keep you safe, to respect you, porn to pay for your food, to pick you up – and crot just treat you like a gentleman [should]. Which I believe I have done.
Her date revealed that he had made a reservation elsewhere but that an unforeseen delay meant they missed it – and memek so The Cheesecake Factory was the backup option (stock image)
Alicia repeatedly fixed her hair and bokeh made it clear that she was unconvinced.
She replied: ‘I feel like I’m doing everything I’m supposed to do as a woman. I got myself all made up…’
Before she could finish her sentence, memek Jay interjected: ‘But there is nothing wrong with The Cheesecake Factory.’
He then revealed that he had agreed to pick her up at 4pm but that she did not come down from her apartment for bokep another hour without him being invited up to wait.
She justified that she did not know him well enough yet, bokeh to which he responded: ‘That’s why I’m saying, I’m thinking, okay, bokeh if we’re not there in the relationship to meet at your apartment then maybe we’re not ready in the relationship for such a nice, bokep fancy restaurant – especially if I am paying for porn the whole thing.’
He revealed that he had made a reservation elsewhere but that the unforeseen delay meant they missed it – and so The Cheesecake Factory was the backup option.
Alicia was undeterred however, bokeh as she questioned: memek ‘Isn’t there another restaurant you can call that is equivalent to that? You don’t understand porn – look at me. I cannot go in The Cheesecake Factory. I will die. That’s embarrassing.’
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‘You made some good points. That’s why I’m willing to compromise. Are you sure you want to go home?’
But the discussion raged on in the comments as other social media users slammed her as a prima donna and praised the man for porn his actions.
One wrote: memek ‘I like the Cheesecake Factory… Girl bye… He dodged a bullet… perfectly played.’
The video was later shared to Reddit on a sub thread titled ‘I’m The Main Character’ where the poster wrote: ‘I am flabbergasted. Poor bokep guy.’